Lived Experience meets Clinical Theory
Jodie Mainstone
10/11/20251 min read


No Single Approach Can Define What It Means to Be Human — And That’s a Good Thing
Too often, mental health support tries to fit everyone into a single mold. But being human is much messier, richer, and more unique than that. Our well-being comes from countless parts of who we are—our neurodiversity, gender, sexuality, culture, and how we’re treated by others all shape the way we think, feel, and live.
The most effective support comes from balancing lived experience with clinical theory. Both are essential, but together they create care that is compassionate, inclusive, and transformative.
Lived experience is more than a personal story. It is expertise. Neurodivergent individuals, LGBTQ+ people, and those navigating systemic barriers like racism or sexism bring insights that no textbook can provide. Their perspectives reveal the realities of stress, resilience, and triumphs in ways that shape more empathetic and effective support. When mental health services listen first, people feel seen and validated. Their voices do not just inform care, they transform it.
Clinical theory provides structure, guidance, and evidence-based strategies. Approaches help professionals understand patterns and offer support safely. But theory alone is not enough. Without considering identity, culture, or neurodiversity among other intersections, it can miss the real challenges someone faces or pathologise differences. Theory must meet lived experience, combining knowledge with empathy.
When lived experience and theory come together, mental health care becomes affirming, culturally sensitive, gender- and sexuality-affirming, and anti-racist. It creates support that empowers people to thrive, rather than just cope.
Putting this into practice means listening first, validating always, reflecting on how theory aligns with real-life experiences, co-creating solutions, and staying flexible so that lived experience shapes ongoing practice.
Mental health care at its best celebrates identity, values lived experience and uses theory.